And daddy finds it cute,.....after all...... that's his little girl!
Sadly, daddy's little girl grows up in a world of males who are not her daddy.
The other men in the world do not like "daddy's little girl" personalities on girls who are not THEIR daughters.
The female is now told that being assertive makes her a shrew.
That asking questions makes her "nosey".
And that she is not allowed to have self esteem except if some men or other tell her it is "ok" for her to do so............
Women loose their identity under the male fear that men would no longer dominate if women were allowed to be assertive.
When a woman gets married,...... she becomes a "Mrs."......she becomes a wife
When a woman is not married, but still dares to have a sex life......or if not, even to LOOK sexy,...... she becomes a ho.
When a woman is not married and looks unsexy and withdrawn,....... she is called an old maid.
When a man gets married,...... his identity does not revolve around being married,.... he STAYS a Mr........ he remains a man.
When a man is not married and boasts of having a sex life,..... he then becomes a macho,.....man.
When a man is not married and looks unsexy and disinterested ,......he's just a queer,.......man.
The woman's identity is attached to sexual or non-sexual activity.
The male's identity revolves around his profession.
It is no small wonder that males therefore identify sexuality with the female.
So, when a man feels lust for a woman,...... he does not call himself promiscuous or a pervert,...... he calls the woman a teasing ho. His lust is SOMEHOW her fault.
By this structure, the male has to take no social responsibility for any perversion he may have. When a man picks up a prostitute,.....he's just having "fun" in society's eyes. The woman he picks up, however, is a dirty ho.
In the same space, the man is positive,....the woman negative.
The really sad part is - WOMEN BUY INTO THIS.
So accommodating are women desperately trying to keep marriages together,........... they give up more and more of the identities they gained as "daddy'd little girl"........ that they erode all avenues of self esteem they used to have.
They are then left with only one "self esteem" niche.......... to find ways to look down on their sisters.....
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and daddy's little girl becomes lost,.......
confused...........
doomed to be take refuge behind a veil of bitter superiority......
or behind a veil of suffocating shame.............
or behind a veil of melancholy loneliness
veils that women throw around at each other....... more oppressive than cloth hijabs
veils thrown around with the "daddys'"
blessings....................
WHEN WILL WOMEN LEARN?
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